i remember receiving a call from one of my best buddies yesterday..at that moment in time,i really got a shocked cos she dun usually call me unless its something very very important..and den she go on to tell me that her mum has been admitted to the hospital due to her leg infection and her mum had to undergo operation.she was asking me whether she should give up her relationship because she wants to spend more time with her mother. also,she has to cope with her studies and work(to help to earn for the family) at the same time. i really dunnoe what to say because giving up a relationship really depends on her. if i give her a wrong answer,she would probably hate me forever because she regret wad she did.what i can think of are only advises.i told her to tell her bf about not having enough time for him.if he is willing to give her more time and space,that would be a very good thing..and like wad kimyein told me,she can lean on him whenever she needs him.and at the same time,this could be the best time to make their relationship stronger.For me, i seriously hate the phrase"not having enough time" it is the lousiest reason of all...from what i know,everyone have 24 hrs each..you have your 24 hrs,i have mine..u may have more activites then me but we share the same amount of time.everyone have to find time for themselves..so i think from this,she shouldnt bid goodbye to him just like that..probably a phone call once a few days is good enough to let ur partner know what u are doing...
but these are only some of my thoughts..
and i realise bad things are going on all around the world..the recent taiwan earthquake caused many lives lost!so many people are actually suffering..they dun want it but they cant even control it when natural disaster struck..its really a plight to see them in such state.i was thinking hard yesterday and i finally realise how fortunate i am..i can travel around the world with my friends and familes..never did i realise there are so people around me who are much much less fortunate than me.

for now,i really appreciate what i have now!
healthy parents,sblings,friends and relatives!!